How to use weed to speak your partner’s love language
Plan ahead and court your boo based on the love language that resonates with him the most.
When the candy aisle turns pink and teddy bears show up at your local grocery store, you know Valentine’s Day is coming. February 14th is a day for showing love and gratitude to the people we care about most, making it one of the happiest holidays of the year.
But Valentine’s Day can come with its own set of challenges. First of all, the economy is forcing people to limit their spending on entertainment. And when you’re meeting someone new, it might be difficult for you to figure out exactly how to show that you care without seeming too serious.
If you haven’t heard about it, Gary D. Chapman’s book, The Five Love Languages: The Mystery of Love That Lasts, gives you a map of how most people experience love using five languages or preferences: Words of affirmation, acts of service, gifts, quality time, and physical touch.
Everyone’s love language is a combination of the five, if not all five at once, and the book lays out a detailed plan for how to love your partner better based on the love language that connects them the most.
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Chapman’s assessment of love is pretty accurate, but there’s another love language that we know exists. Weed. Luckily we know this pretty well. So here’s a crash course on each love language and how to pair them with weed to become the ultimate Valentine in 2023.
words of affirmation
Words of affirmation let your partner know how much you care for them, but saying the right thing at the right time is a difficult task for many.
If the person you love responds to affirmative words, think about how you can cheer them up or make them feel good. If you can’t think of any thoughts of your own, try the following:
- “You always pick the most incredible strains!”
- “I could watch you smoke weed all day.”
- “Whenever we get high, your creativity always blows my mind.”
- “Babe, you always find the best weed deals. I love that about you.”
- “It’s always a good session when you roll the blunt, boo.”
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official acts
We’ve all heard that “actions speak louder than words”. Acts of service are those personalized things you do for people that really matter. For example, preparing your favorite drink, cooking a good meal or filling your car with petrol without being asked.
When it comes to impressing the helpful weed lover in your life, we have a few suggestions that are sure to impress.
Even if you don’t smoke, you can still learn how to roll for your partner(s) to help them relax. If you’re not a roller, you can always grind your weed or pack the bong in advance. You can also volunteer to pick up weed for your favorite stoner to save them a trip, or offer to clean their broken glass.
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There are so many little ways to say I love you. What may seem like a small task to you will feel like a big declaration of love to that special person in your life.
Gifts
Valentine’s Day is a great time to give gifts, but you can’t just show up with a bag of old, dry weed thinking you’re going to melt your lover. Do some research and find out their favorite flavor and get them for them, or kick back on vacation and get some candy to make your Valentine’s Day really groovy.
You can also spoil them with new glassware, lighters, ashtrays and other smoking accessories. Is there anything missing from your daily home smoking kit? Weed technology is evolving every year, and there might be a new vaporizer or device that you’d like to have but would never buy yourself.
If you’re on a budget, you can also get a nice candle or some incense sticks to keep the house smelling nice.
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quality time
Quality time is all about intention. Make time for the moments that are important to your lover. No distractions or multitasking, just you, your love and the moment. If your lover enjoys watching movies, listening to music, playing video games, or going for long walks, you can add a pre-roll or vape pen to the situation and help them find even more bliss. But it doesn’t have to stop at leisure activities.
You can plan a trip with them to a high yoga class, take them out for a nice meal after they’ve enjoyed a joint of their favorite brew, or buy tickets to a live event that you can both go to elevated. And have you ever made something edible with your boo? The process might just fulfill your partner’s quality-time needs and result in yummy treats for both of you.
Weed and quality time go together like milk and muesli. All you have to do is match the right weed to the right situation. Use Leafly’s strain lists to find the strains that perfectly match your Valentine’s mood, whether it’s slow and sexy, calm and leisurely, or energetic and fun.
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physical touch
Last but not least: *Omarion voice* touch.
Does your partner like to cuddle on the couch? Do you love showing off a small PDA? Snuggling up and waving a joint or blunt while closer than close can trigger more than you think. You never know where a smoking session and a hearty conversation might take you. Just talk to your partner and get approval to move closer as the convo deepens.
Valentine’s Day is also the perfect opportunity to grab some weed and give a special V-Day back or foot massage. Before the special night, you can go online to brush up on your techniques and get ready to play masseuse.
And if you don’t have a Valentine’s Day date, don’t let that stop you from practicing these languages on and with yourself.
Because the best love is self-love.
Ryan Brown
Ryan is a content creator, copywriter, and entrepreneur from St. Louis living in Chicago. He is a basketball fanatic, hip hop enthusiast, indica lover who enjoys watching series and classic movies.
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