How to Manage Warlike Political Conversations

The presidential campaign is in full swing – but why should it interrupt meetings with friends and family? Here you will find the best tips for dealing with various political issues Perspectives.

As the presidential race heats up and the country appears divided, the question is how to stay connected to the people you know who may have a different political perspective. Patience, grace and planning can make it a little easier. Here are some tips for dealing with controversial political conversations at events.

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First, remember and understand that people are different than you and that it is rare for everyone to have exactly the same opinion. Also think about why you are gathering, what the purpose is, and what it is about

When it comes to your boundaries, don't mince words. If you know yourself and feel like you can't engage in a discussion about politics without getting heated, let others know that you won't talk about politics. If you want to argue with someone, try to be the person you would like to argue with, alternating between listening and talking, but balancing your words and not being offensive.

Plan ahead

When organizing an event, think about why you are bringing people together. If it's a birthday, a happy event, or a friendly gathering, think about the guests and how they will interact with each other. Take the time beforehand and communicate behaviors that are not allowed, such as yelling, dominating a conversion, snide comments, or bullying tactics will not be accepted. Recognize that people are being invited to something enjoyable, not a cage fight.

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State your discomfort

If you're having a conversation and it starts to get heated, express your discomfort. Try to avoid awkwardness and instead try to be as sincere as possible. Your answer depends on the person you are talking to. If you're talking to a colleague, try changing the subject or saying you're not interested in politics. Talking to friends and family can help you take a more honest approach.

Know when to end a conversation

The more you come into contact with different types of people, the more you learn to read their physical and verbal signals. Be aware of them. So if the conversation gets heated, change course. On election night, it might be too late to change someone's mind, especially if they have strong political views. Save yourself the stress and try to maintain this relationship if it is important to you.

To be open for something

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It is always important to have an open discussion. Try to understand why this person thinks the way they do. This doesn't mean you have to agree with them, but it can help you have a more civilized conversation and ensure the relationship doesn't fall apart due to the heat of the moment. Empathy can make a big difference.

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When it comes to your boundaries, don't mince words. If you know yourself and feel like you can't participate in a discussion about politics without yelling, let others know that you won't talk about politics. If you want to argue with someone, try to be the person you would like to argue with, alternating between listening and talking, but balancing your words and not being offensive.